A Warning to Guys

Do not ever show the girl the wrong signs.

Do not act like her boyfriend when you are just friends. Because if you continue doing that, for the girl, you are not just friends. A girl can pretend it is nothing, play your game like everything is cool and casual between you two. But what the guy never knows and never feels is that inside, the girl is falling -truly, madly, and deeply.

Do not make her feel extra special and do not give her all the time and attention if it is just nothing or if you are still confused with what you feel. The girl is not confused. It is pretty clear that she goes out with you because she likes you.

Even if there are no expectations, it is your fault if a girl falls for you and if you "unintentionally" hurt her with your actions. Do not blame it on us guys. Blame it on yourself why each and every girl in the world for once in her life cried over your population.

If you are insensitive, girls are the opposite. Do not play with our hearts because it is easy for you to move on. It is hard for us and takes months or years even. Do not make promises you can not keep. We know promises are meant to be broken. But every time a promise is made, anyone can not help but hope that the promise is kept.

We love you boys. But be a man.